love-and-marriage(爱教学讲解课件.ppt

1、【5A文】love and marriage(爱情与婚姻)Love is a kind of passion.People may fall in love with each other at first sight.Somebody says:falling in love returns us to the emotions of infancy and childhood.so people in love live a life in the present,they always dont think the future.what is love?what is loveLove

2、 is patient,love is kind.It does not envy,it does not boast,it is not proud.It is not rude,it is not self-seeking。it is not easily angered,it keeps no record of wrongs.Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.It always protects,always trusts,always hopes,always perseveres.Love never

3、 fails.爱是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈；爱是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈；爱是不嫉妒，不自夸，不张狂；爱是不嫉妒，不自夸，不张狂；不做害羞的事，不求自己的益处；不做害羞的事，不求自己的益处；不轻易发怒，不计算人的恶，不喜欢不义，不轻易发怒，不计算人的恶，不喜欢不义，只喜欢真理；凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐。只喜欢真理；凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐。爱是永无止息。爱是永无止息。愿得一人心，白首不相离。愿得一人心，白首不相离。卓文君白头吟卓文君白头吟结发为夫妻，恩爱两不疑。结发为夫妻，恩爱两不疑。苏武苏武 留别妻留别妻死生契阔，与子成说。执子之手，与子偕老。死生契阔，与子成说。执子之手，与

4、子偕老。诗经诗经有美人兮，见之不忘，一日不见兮，思之如狂。有美人兮，见之不忘，一日不见兮，思之如狂。凤求凰凤求凰 Love PoemsHow Do I Love Thee?by Elizabeth Barrett Browning How do I love thee?Let me count the ways.I love thee to the depth and breadth and height My soul can reach,when feeling out of sightFor the ends of Being and ideal Grace.I love thee to

5、 the level of every days Most quiet need,by sun and candlelight.I love thee freely,as men strive for Right;I love thee purely,as they turn from Praise.I love thee with the passion put to use In my old griefs,and with my childhoods faith.I love thee with a love I seemed to lose With my lost saints-I

6、love thee with the breath,Smiles,tears,of all my life!-and,if God choose,I shall but love thee better after death.我怎样爱你我怎样爱你 伊丽莎白芭蕾特布朗宁我究竟怎样爱你？让我细数详端。我爱你直到我灵魂所及的深度、广度和高度，我在视力不及之处摸索着存在的极致和美的理想。我爱你像最朴素的日常需要一样，就像不自觉地需要阳光和蜡烛。我自由地爱你，像人们选择正义之路，我纯洁地爱你，像人们躲避称赞颂扬。我爱你用的是我在昔日的悲痛里 用过的那种激情，以及童年的忠诚。我爱你用的爱，我本以为早已失

7、去（与我失去的圣徒一同）；我爱你用笑容、眼泪、呼吸和生命！只要上帝允许，在死后我爱你将只会更加深情。Love PoemsOnce some sincere love suspended in front of me 曾经有一份真挚的爱情摆在我的面前 I didnt cherish it我没有珍惜 only to find myself extremely regret when it was lost 等到失去的时候才追悔莫及 The most painful thing is no more than this in this world 人世间最痛苦的事情莫过于此 If God could

8、 give me another chance,如果上天能够给我一个重新来过的机会 I will speak three words to that girl:I love you 我会对那个女孩子说三个字:我爱你 if there is a time limit for this love 如果非要给这份爱加上一个期限 I hope it would be ten thousand year 我希望是一万年。Westward Journey (大话西游)what is marriage？Marriage is a kind of responsibility.Marriage based o

9、n two peoples love.It is not only a love story.Once two people step into marriage,they take responsibilities for family.They live together and there can be conflicts,complaints and so many other trifles.Love is holding hands in the streetMarriage is holding arguments in the streetLove is dinner for

10、2 in your favorite restaurantMarriage is Chinese take-outLove is cuddling（拥抱）on a sofaMarriage is deciding on a sofaLove is talking about having childrenMarriage is talking about getting away from childrenLove is going to bed earlyMarriage is going to sleep earlyLove is a flickering flameMarriage is

11、 a flickering televisionLove is 1 drink and 2 straws（麦杆，吸管）Marriage is Dont you think youve had enough!The difference between love and marriagethe essence of marriage:LoveTrustRespectIndependenceCommon interestCommunicationMarriage experts believe that communication is the main factor leading to a h

12、armonious relationship between husband and wife.The purpose of communication is to know and understand each other.The most important essence of marriage:CommunicationHow to communicate1.Saying something good is better than saying something much.2.Listening is more important than speaking.3.Be comple

13、tely honest is not better than leaving room for each other4.Appreciation and encouragement,tolerance and understanding.如何沟通如何沟通1.说得多，不如说得好。2.倾听比说更重要。3.完全坦白，不如留有余地。4.欣赏与鼓励、包容与谅解。n培养双方共同的兴趣爱好，寻找共同话题。培养双方共同的兴趣爱好，寻找共同话题。n双方发言的机会要均等。双方发言的机会要均等。n凭借谈话来了解对方。凭借谈话来了解对方。n全面了解对方全面了解对方。nIncrease common interests

14、 and find common topicsnEqual opportunities for both to speaknUnderstand each other by talkingnA comprehensive understanding of each otherCommunication skills between husband and wife Here are some films about love storynTitanicnRoman HolidaynSleepless in Seattlen50 First DatesnCity of Angelsn泰坦尼克号n罗马假日n西雅图夜未眠n初恋50次n天使之城TitanicTitanicTitanicsleepless in seattlesleepless in seattleRoman HolidayRoman Holiday50 First Dates50 First Dates50 First DatesCity of AngelsWish we all have a happy ending!What is Love?What is Love?