高效能人士的七个习惯(英文版)thesevenh课件.ppt

1、Slide presentation by Ken du PisanieWritten by Stephen R.CoveyYoure Going to be“Off Track”90%of the Time.So What?Good families even great families are off track 90%of the time.The key is that they have a sense of destination.They know what the“track”looks like.And they keep coming back to it time an

2、d time again.The key is in having a destination,a flight plan,and a compass.Invest the next few minutes in this presentation,and you will be given the most valuable tools ever to find your destination for your family.Have the end in mind:A Beautiful Family CultureHABIT 1BE PROACTIVEWe do not have to

3、 love.We choose to love.To do carefully and constantly and kindly many little things is not a little thing.The way you treat any relationship in the family will eventually affect every relationship in the family.HABIT 2BEGIN WITH THE END IN MINDCreate a clear,compelling vision of what you and your f

4、amily are all about.A family mission statement is a combined,unified expression from all family members of what your family is all about and the principles you choose to govern your family life.For the most part,families dont have the kind of mission statement so critical to organizational success.Y

5、et the family is the most important,fundamental organization in the world.Through a family mission statement you can let your children know that you are totally committed to them,and that you have been from the very moment of their birth or adoption.HABIT 3PUT FIRST THINGS FIRSTMaking Family a Prior

6、ity in a Turbulent World“Okay,now,I know what youre going to hear from people is“We dont have the time.But if you dont have the time for one night or at least one hour during the week where everybody can come together as a family,then the family is not the priority.”Oprah Winfrey Things which matter

7、 the most must never be at the mercy of things which matter least.The place to start is not with the assumption that work is non-negotiable;its with the assumption that family is non-negotiable.That one shift of mind-set opens the door to all kinds of creative possibilities.The role of parents is a

8、unique one,a sacred stewardship in life.Is there really anything that would outweigh the importance of fulfilling that stewardship well?HABIT 4THINK“WINWIN”Moving from“Me”to “We”The question is this:“Would you be willing to search for a solution that is better than what either of us is now proposing

9、?”The commitment is this:“Let me listen to you first”or“Help me understand.”The principle is this:What is important to another person must be as important to you as the other person is to you.Parenting is not about being popular and giving in to every childs whim and desire.Its about making decision

10、s that truly are win-win however they may appear to the child at the time.HABIT 5SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTANDTHEN TO BE UNDERSTOODSolving family problems through emphatic communicationTheres no way to have rich,rewarding family relationships without real understandingMost mistakes with family members ar

11、e not the result of bad intent.Its just that we really dont understand.We dont see clearly into one anothers hearts.When you understandYou dont judge.Each person needs to be loved in his or her own special way.They key to making deposits,therefore,is to understand and to speak that persons language

12、of loveThe technique of emphatic listening is just the tip of the iceberg.The great mass of the iceberg is a deep and sincere desire to truly understand.HABIT 6SYNERGIZEBuilding family unity through celebrating differencesYou must be able to say sincerely,“The fact that we see things differently is

13、a strength not a weakness in our relationship.Once you realize that each problem is asking for a response instead of just triggering a reaction,you start to learn.You become a learning family.HABIT 7SHARPEN THE SAWRenewing the family spirit through traditionsEvery family must take time to renew itse

14、lf in the four key areas of life:physical,social,mental,and spiritual.If you organize your family life to spend ten or fifteen minutes a morning reading something that connects you to timeless principles,you will make better choices during the day in the family,on the job,in every dimension of life.

15、Sharpening the saw is the highest leverage activity in life because it affects everything else so powerfullyFrom SurvivalTo stabilityTo SuccessTo SignificanceI dont know what your destiny will be,but one thing I know:The only ones among you who will really be happy are those who have sought and found how to serve.Albert Schweitzer p 经常不断地学习,你就什么都知道。你知道得越多,你就越有力量p Study Constantly,And You Will Know Everything.The More You Know,The More Powerful You Will Be写在最后谢谢大家荣幸这一路，与你同行ItS An Honor To Walk With You All The Way演讲人：XXXXXX 时 间：XX年XX月XX日